A failure to listen correctly is often one of the key
reasons why productivity and profits are lost. Late
projects, misinformed workers or an unclear vision of
the company's future are all results of poor
communication.
Listening is one of the most important skills in
effective communication. When people do not listen
correctly there is often a gap between the speaker's
expectations and the listener's delivery in business. A
failure to listen can create problems between
management and reports. Managers think that their
expectations are clear, but are often surprised when
deliverables are late or have low quality. In addition to
reports, it is just as important for manager's to listen
closely to their reports in order to have a productive
workplace. If managers fail to listen to the concerns or
red flags of their reports, they may miss the
opportunity of preventing a costly problem in their
company's output.
Poor listening by reports can often result in a
decrease in productivity that damages the bottom line.
However, companies that invest in communication
programs see fantastic results. Watson Wyatt's
2005/2006 Communication ROI Study found that
between 2000 and 2004 companies with the most
effective communication programs achieved a 91
percent total return to shareholders (TRS). Clearly,
investing in communication is extremely important.
Here is an example of how one company's poor
communication resulted in serious profit loss. Several
years ago, a mid-sized company had difficulty
completing a project that required collaboration
between two separate departments. Collaboration
was needed in order to get FDA approval by a certain
deadline for a new drug. Unfortunately, poorly
communicated expectations prevented the two
departments from completing the project on time. The
company missed the deadline and experienced a
large loss of profit. The bottom line, poor
communication can harm the bottom line.
Fortunately, people can improve their listening
component of communication to insure that costly
mistakes are not made. It takes both practice and
dedication, but the investment is well worth it. To
practice pro-active listening, remember to use this
helpful acronym, FLAIRS.
Use this six-step listening tool in the following order:
FLAIRS: An Exercise for Effective
Listening
1st
Focus - maintain eye
contact with the speaker at all times and focus on the
speaker's central message and subject of
conversation. Take note of mannerisms because they
are important keys to the person's feeling about the
topic.
2nd
Listen (Actively) -
repeat back to
the speaker what you understand them to have said.
For example, "It seems to me that you want the reports
finished on Wednesday before the executive meeting,
is this correct?" Remember to always ask for
confirmation of the information after by asking if you
understood correctly. If you are in a meeting and
cannot repeat the message out loud, try to repeat the
information internally and answer your own questions.
3rd
Acknowledge the
person's tone of
voice and affect verbally. For example, "It sounds as if
it is really important to have the reports before the
meeting, am I wrong?" Again, remember that
confirmation of your assumption is an integral part to
clearer communication.
4th
Inquire - ask the
speaker if what
you listened to and acknowledged was correct. If done
correctly, this step should be done after you've listened
and acknowledged the speaker. The purpose of
inquiring is to take the assumption out of
communication.
5th
Respond - explain your
individual
opinions and thoughts about the matter at hand. For
example, "I think we may be able to finish the first two
reports on time, but the third report needs more time
to gather all the data."
Important Note: most people tend to skip
steps 1-4 and start with an immediate response.
Skipping steps 1-4 can create miscommunication,
misunderstanding and resentment by the speaker.
Only respond after steps 1-4 of listening.
6th
Summarize &
Strategize - work
together to come up with a solution. This is a
collaborative and interactive discussion that will ideally
come up with a solution that will benefit both parties.
For example, "I think I can get the third report finished
by tomorrow, but could you get Steve and Nancy to
help out with these other projects so we can finish on
time?" ... "I'll talk to both of them. Good luck with the
report."
Communication is not simply speaking -- it is a
process that includes active listening, effective
deliverance of a message and mutual understanding
of both the listener and the communicator.
Communication is most effective when listeners make
a conscious effort to listen and respond to the
communicator and the communicator makes an effort
to confirm that their message was understood.
Research shows us that people remember 95 percent
of what they experience through interactive
communication and only 20 percent of what they hear.
So practice this exercise and insure that you fully
understand the other person's message.